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Who we are

We’re single-minded

(in a good way).

Adopt A Shadchan is the largest global network of shadchanim & shidduch programs, spanning 5 countries and 30 cities worldwide.

Navigating shidduchim is hard.
Feeling judged, criticized, or forgotten?
Even harder.

We’re here to support our singles and
those who support our singles.

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Shadchanim & coaches

If you’re passionate about changing two
lives forever, and want:

  • Networking
  • Support
  • Camaraderie
Single men & women

If you’re feeling burned out, and want to:

  • Get better dates
  • Find new networking opportunities
  • Meet caring, sensitive shadchanim
Parents & friends

If you’re hurt watching them hurt,
and want to:

  • Daven for them,
  • Guide them, or
  • Help them date most effectively

…we’d like to make your shidduch journey easier and smoother.

How can we help?

Find my program

Some of our programs

Fredt
Have an idea for a friend?
Wedding Redting
Don’t get dressed twice.
Prayer Pact
The real hishtadlus.
Meet the Shadchan
We’re nice, we promise.
Speed Dating
Quick, fun, and targeted.
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Fun. Uplifting. Invigorating.

There’s something new,

UPCOMING EVENTS

If you want to hear about upcoming events and new programs, this is your way to stay in the loop.

(Goodbye, FOMO.)

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Find your tribe.

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Connect to others.

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Feel heard.

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Make a difference.

    Fun fact: Many of our programs are inspired by and created with our talented singles.

    Singular things
    Adopt a Shadchan singles say

    I participated in a few rounds of the Prayer Pact and wanted to let you know that BH I became a kallah!

    In all my interactions with Adopt A Shadchan, I was always struck by the respect and preservation of dignity that you employ as you talk to singles. Shidduchim is an incredibly vulnerable stage of life and you helped make it easier. I will continue to daven for the success of Adopt A Shadchan – we need more people like you!

    Chana, Lakewood

    I love how there’s always so much going on – Wedding Redting, Fredting, challah bakes, Prayer Pact… I met with a dating coach through Adopt A Shadchan’s coaching program and found it incredibly helpful. I feel like we think there’s something wrong with us because we’re single, and sometimes society’s messaging just confirms that. With Adopt A Shadchan, it’s always, “You’re great” and “You’re going to find him” and not, “You’re being too picky”. The genuine humanness and care is what makes Adopt A Shadchan so special.

    Rena
    OUR REACH

    Out of sight, very much in mind

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    Los Angeles
    Waterbury
    Miami Beach
    Boca Raton
    Atlanta
    Chicago
    Baltimore
    Minneapolis
    St. Louis
    Passaic
    Lakewood
    Teaneck
    Toms River
    Queens
    Brooklyn
    Five Towns
    Far Rockaway
    New York City
    Monsey
    Riverdale
    Cleveland
    Dallas
    Houston
    Detroit
    Outside the US:
    • Antwerp, Belgium
    • Montreal, Canada
    • Toronto, Canada
    • Israel
    HOW WE’RE DIFFERENT

    Things you’ll never hear at Adopt A Shadchan

    You’re too picky

    Boys like that don’t exist.

    You’re unrealistic.

    The guys don’t like
    girls like you.

    You’re not getting
    any younger.

    The girls don’t like
    guys like you.

    Girls like that don’t exist.

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    • Insightful, not all-knowing
    • Caring, not pitying
    • Helpful, not pushy
    About us

    Endorsed by
    Rabbi Moshe Tuvia Lieff

    See full rabbinical board & more endorsements

    Since its inception, I have watched Adopt a Shadchan with growing wonder and pride. The initiatives are beautiful and thought-out, all with one goal: to help the singles of Klal Yisroel.

    I have personally seen the tremendous chizuk and hope the Prayer Pact project instills in singles and their parents — as singles daven for each other, with B"H beautiful and successful results. I am truly amazed at the work they do and at the unbelievable level of dedication from their wonderful army of shadchanim.

    I have personally seen the chizuk and hope it instills. I am awed.

    Rabbi Lieff, Morah D'Asra of Agudath Israel Bais Binyomin Brooklyn, New York

    Cutting through the redt tape

    Whether you’re a shadchan, dating coach, parent, or single, we’re here to make shidduchim less painful, more hopeful.

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