It takes one person to change two lives

How can you help?

Daven for
someone else

Join Prayer Pact to daven for someone else — or just add their name to your daily tefillos. Say an extra perek of tehillim and have them in mind.  (And no need to tell them you’re doing this) Join here and get our shidduch tefillah.

Bring redting to your wedding

It’s the perfect opportunity:  Her friends. His friends. All looking their best You provide an empty room at the hall. We’ll set up a shadchan or two to meet them! Register your wedding here  and gift your single guests the knowledge that you really, really care.

Host a Be My Guest meal

The Shabbos table is a magical place. Bring two people together over cholent and divrei Torah through the Be My Guest program. It’s real, relaxed, and rewarding. We’ll match you with 2-4 single girls + guys of similar age/background/hashkafa. Maybe one day they’ll say, “It all started at your Shabbos table”!
Find out more or Become a host

Host an event

Run an incredible speed-dating event (even if it's your first time)! You choose the age + demographic, we give  you the guidance,  technical tips + technical knowhow to make it work beautifully.
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Sponsor a single

Sponsor a day of focus for a single you know — classmate, daughter, neighbor, coworker, anyone you care about, really. The 250 shadchanim on our chat network tirelessly all day exclusively for him or her, to spark ideas and get them rolling.  

Fredt an idea

You know someone or went out with someone… and it’s a great idea for your friend. You can redt it yourself but a) #awkward or
b) #motheronlylistenstotheshadchan.
Share your idea here and get an AAS shadchan to redt it.

Insert your own idea here

You know best what you could do. Go ahead. Do it!
And tell us how it went

Join our exclusive Shadchan Chat

350+ Shadchanim on the chat

It’s a sisterhood for pro shadchanim who’ve taken the shadchan course. Join hundreds of vetted shadchanim and network together for your best shot at a shidduch.

Get access to a diverse group of singles and widen your impact — dramatically.

Respectful, productive, and supportive, this is one chat you won’t want to mute!

“I made shidduchim for 2 of my granddaughters through the AAS chat! I love the networking, the camaraderie, and  the diversity! I have access to so many different singles and can work together with other amazing shadchanim to make more shidduchim happen.”

Your CARE certification is required to join the AAS Shadchan chat (see below).

Join our Date-A-Base network

4000+ singles in our Date-A-Base

Expand your reach and broaden your impact ten times over through our international shidduch database.

You’ll shrink the world with just a few clicks and access thousands of singles the world over. See who singles are and what they’re looking for in real-time and be able to make shidduchim .

Use the algo to help you brainstorm, and save your ideas as you help singles worldwide find their perfect match — faster and more easily than ever.

“The Date-A-Base is fantastic — an exceptionally useful tool for shadchanim!It gives me access to a huge range of singles and also generates really great suggestions that I might not think of on my own. If you’re a shadchan, I highly recommend the database — it’s super organized, very user-friendly, time-saving and extremely helpful.Just recently, it generated an idea that actually happened — and I wouldn’t have thought of it myself! Thank you!

Become a Master Shadchan with AAS CARE

50+ AAS Cares Shadchanim

Sharpen your shadchan chops with AAS’s signature Shadchan Masterclass.

Learn how to create rapport with singles, tackle the unique challenges of today’s generation, deal with challenging parents, and guide singles towards a healthy, long-lasting relationship.

You’ll walk away with a powerful, useful set of skills that help you be a more successful shadchan and bring more right people together — faster and easier. Plus, an AAS Shadchan Matchmaker certificate, identifying you as an AAS Matchmaker who CAREs.

You’ll also get access to our closed chat sisterhood
of shadchanim and other in-demand AAS shadchan programs.

4 90-modules including role-playing, case studies and Q&A Subsidized rate $250 | AAS members $180

“I just finished the second module and I’m blown away by how much more effective I’ll be as a shadchan — starting today. It gave me a groundwork of skills so I can really help singles get to the finish line. I’m just floored that there’s no program out there yet like this for shadchanim — if you want to become instantly 10 times more effective, you must take this masterclass course.”

Shadchan name

Your CARE certification grants you entry to the AAS Shadchan chat.

Coach a single through our subsidized coaching program

1 hour could be all it takes

There’s a real need for dating coaching today. If you specialize in dating coaching and want to help a single get unstuck, join as a volunteer or subsidized coach to give of your time and wisdom.

You’ll help our wonderful singles date with clarity, purpose, and joy — and give them the clarity and confidence to get to the finish line.

“I just finished the second module and I’m blown away by how much more effective I’ll be as a shadchan — starting today. It gave me a groundwork of skills so I can really help singles get to the finish line. I’m just floored that there’s no program out there yet like this for shadchanim — if you want to become instantly 10 times more effective, you must take this masterclass course.”

Tehillah, former single

Or get in touch to be added to our megalist of coaches (reaches 3500+ singles)

They see singles.

You see people

You see people

Even when there’s nothing you can do,  there’s something you can do —

shift your thinking

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Prayer Pact

Because tefilla is the real hishtadlus

Meet the shadchan

Meet nice shadchanim from all over

Database

One profile unlocks the whole world

Speed Dating

Quick, fun, and targeted events

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