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the program(s).

Get with the program(s).

Taking the ‘uch’ out of ‘shidduchim’.

How can we help?

Date-A-Base

4000+ Singles in our Date-A-Base

Get targeted suggestions from shadchanim who care through our international shidduch database.

Shrink the world with just a few clicks, allowing shadchanim to see who you are and what you’re looking for in real-time.

All profiles are private and secure, visible to AAS shadchanim only.
#singlesdignitymatters

“We want to thank your date-a-base team & Daphne Soclof from the bottom of our hearts! You were the messengers from Hashem for our shidduch. Throughout our dating journey, Mrs. Soclof was always there for us with a listening ear, advice, and support.  We recommend everyone who is dating to join it, and are SO grateful we were matched through their wonderful database! Thank you!!!”
Elana H.

Prayer Pact

10,000+ People in Prayer Pact

You daven for me and I’ll daven for youuuu…
Prayer Pact harnesses our greatest weapon: tefillah.

Whether you’re a single, a parent of a single,
or a sibling waiting for a green light, join Prayer Pact to daven for someone in a similar situation.

We can’t solve all the system’s problems,
but we can daven for each other.

“I participated in a few rounds of Prayer Pact and wanted to let you know that BH I became a kallah! I truly believe that everyone’s tefillos helped this parsha go so smoothly (so much so that I kept asking my chosson if this is real). Thank you!”

Chaya S, Kallah

Unleash the power of tefillah.

AAS Events

35+ Yearly Events

From shiurim to shadchanim, chizuk to challah bakes, we have the event YOU need.

AAS has workshops for parents, singles, and shadchanim, providing guidance, support, and inspiration.

Whether you’re looking for great speakers, networking, or supportive collaborators, AAS
events are the place to be.

“AAS events open so many doors for me. Whether it’s getting dates, cultivating new friendships, or meeting new shadchanim, I really feel like AAS relationships last long-term. I also appreciate how there’s always something going on. They have something for everyone.

Devorah K.

Speed Dating

25+ Speed Dating Events Yearly

Sick of DOAs but squirm from most speed dating events? Join our quick, productive, and enjoyable speed dating events.

At AAS, we vet our guest lists carefully to ensure each event is as on-target as possible. Our hosts keep every event appropriate and tachlis-oriented.

Less formal, more fun, still focused.

“This is why AAS speed dating works: It’ not an open BBQ mixed event. It’s like shidduch dating 25 people in 1 night. Lisa curates the crowd to be as similar as possible (age, hashkafa, etc.) and there’s always a few names you heard of or dated. It’s a great way to find names to explore further.
Yoni J.

No FOMO.

Simchas Hachaim

80+ Singles

Simchas Hachaim is AAS’s division for singles who have lost a parent.

Founded by Alain and Lea Schiff, our group of dedicated shadchanim advocate for, network for, and focus on singles who have lost a parent.

Limited slots available.

Meet the Shadchan

350+ Shadchanim

Meet some of our 350+ shadchanim. Book a private appointment at our office to meet shadchanim. Or join one of our Meet the Shadchan events.

We don’t blame, shame, push, or probe. Enjoy some
friendly chatting with some of the most amazing shadchanim out there

Do your hishtadlus, stress-free. Yay!

“We loved the AAS shadchanim! You gave our girls the feeling that ‘I’m not alone in this’. So many girls said that these events make them feel like the whole community has their back.


Adina Krausz

Wedding Redting

75+ Wedding redting simchas

Who wants to get dressed up twice? (Crickets.)

With Wedding Redting, shadchanim meet singles
at simchas.

Book 1-2 shadchanim to meet the friends of your chosson and kallah in a private room in the hall. This is an easy way to help out your child’s friends

“Meeting shadchanim can be a real investment of time and energy. I love Wedding Redting because I’m already there! I do my hair and makeup once, I drive once, I dance with my friends — AND make my mother happy by doing some hishtadlus. Seriously, it’s a win-win for everyone!”
#intheparsha

Takes under 5 minutes

Fredt

50+ Fredt suggestions monthly

Friends + Redt = Fredt. Went out with someone who would be perfect for a friend, but feel awkward redting it directly?

AAS shadchanim help your ideas happen. Send in your suggestions (you can even submit anonymously).

We’ll take all the headache, you’ll get all the credit.

“I went out with this girl who I thought would be perfect for my chavrusa. I tried redting it but no one bit. When I sent in the suggestion to AAS, the shadchanim thought it was a great idea and got them to go out. Long story short, they’re engaged!”

Chaim R

Don’t fret. Just Fredt.

Coaching

100+ AAS coaching sessions

AAS offers dating coach recommendations + onsite coach available by appointment.

For many singles, a dating coach can significantly improve the dating experience and process.

Get tips, uncover patterns, and shift your mindset with a caring, talented dating coach

“I met with a dating coach through the AAS dating coach program. It was incredible! I’m a therapist and I’ve been recommending this to everyone. There’s such a need for on-point dating coaching today and it’s amazing that AAS is filling that need.”

Rena B.

Be My Guest

100+ Be My Guest Shabbos meals

Be My Guest pairs marriage-minded singles with local families for a Shabbos seuda.

Singles enjoy beautiful meals while networking with local families, meeting new friends, and sometimes finding their next date.

Harness the magic of a Shabbos meal to make more shidduchim happen.

“At first, I was hesitant to join, but Be My Guest was such a normal and ‘human’ way to meet girls. The hosts were wonderful. I walked out of each Shabbos meal with a family I’d be thrilled to join again. And the other singles were the right type — it just worked. I would definitely recommend this to my friends!”
Avi S.

Crown the Chuppah

50+ Crown the Chuppah

AAS’s tefillah card gemach for chuppahs enhances every chuppah. Call or email our office to get beautifully designed cards for your simcha. Current locations include Brooklyn, Lakewood, and Monsey.

A one-time donation of $25 helps AAS continue helping Klal Yisrael.

As your child walks down the aisle, use this special eis ratzon to its utmost. Mazel tov!

“I used the Crown the Chuppah cards because a) they’re stunning and b) I felt like AAS should be a ‘guest’ at our simcha! You held our hand through every step of the process. As our guests davened and my daughter walked around her chassan, I felt like we came full circle.”
Chavi stein

Prayer Pact

10,000+ People in Prayer Pact

You daven for me and I’ll daven for youuuu…
Prayer Pact harnesses our greatest weapon: tefillah.

Whether you’re a single, a parent of a single,
or a sibling waiting for a green light, join Prayer Pact to daven for someone in a similar situation.

We can’t solve all the system’s problems,
but we can daven for each other.

“I participated in a few rounds of Prayer Pact and wanted to let you know that BH I became a kallah! I truly believe that everyone’s tefillos helped this parsha go so smoothly (so much so that I kept asking my chosson if this is real). Thank you!”

Chaya S, Kallah

Unleash the power of tefillah.

AAS Events

35+ Yearly Events

From shiurim to shadchanim, chizuk to challah bakes, we have the event YOU need.

AAS has workshops for parents, singles, and shadchanim, providing guidance, support, and inspiration.

Whether you’re looking for great speakers, networking, or supportive collaborators, AAS
events are the place to be.

“AAS events open so many doors for me. Whether it’s getting dates, cultivating new friendships, or meeting new shadchanim, I really feel like AAS relationships last long-term. I also appreciate how there’s always something going on. They have something for everyone.

Devorah K.

Simchas Hachaim

80+ Singles

Simchas Hachaim is AAS’s division for singles who have lost a parent.

Founded by Alain and Lea Schiff, our group of dedicated shadchanim advocate for, network for, and focus on singles who have lost a parent.

Limited slots available.

Coaching

100+ AAS coaching sessions

AAS offers dating coach recommendations + onsite coach available by appointment.

For many singles, a dating coach can significantly improve the dating experience and process.

Get tips, uncover patterns, and shift your mindset with a caring, talented dating coach

“I met with a dating coach through the AAS dating coach program. It was incredible! I’m a therapist and I’ve been recommending this to everyone. There’s such a need for on-point dating coaching today and it’s amazing that AAS is filling that need.”

Rena B.

Be My Guest

100+ Be My Guest Shabbos meals

Be My Guest pairs marriage-minded singles with local families for a Shabbos seuda.

Singles enjoy beautiful meals while networking with local families, meeting new friends, and sometimes finding their next date.

Harness the magic of a Shabbos meal to make more shidduchim happen.

“At first, I was hesitant to join, but Be My Guest was such a normal and ‘human’ way to meet girls. The hosts were wonderful. I walked out of each Shabbos meal with a family I’d be thrilled to join again. And the other singles were the right type — it just worked. I would definitely recommend this to my friends!”
Avi S

Prayer Pact

10,000+ People in Prayer Pact

You daven for me and I’ll daven for youuuu…
Prayer Pact harnesses our greatest weapon: tefillah.

Whether you’re a single, a parent of a single,
or a sibling waiting for a green light, join Prayer Pact to daven for someone in a similar situation.

We can’t solve all the system’s problems,
but we can daven for each other.

“I participated in a few rounds of Prayer Pact and wanted to let you know that BH I became a kallah! I truly believe that everyone’s tefillos helped this parsha go so smoothly (so much so that I kept asking my chosson if this is real). Thank you!”

Chaya S, Kallah

Unleash the power of tefillah.

AAS Events

35+ Yearly Events

From shiurim to shadchanim, chizuk to challah bakes, we have the event YOU need.

AAS has workshops for parents, singles, and shadchanim, providing guidance, support, and inspiration.

Whether you’re looking for great speakers, networking, or supportive collaborators, AAS
events are the place to be.

“AAS events open so many doors for me. Whether it’s getting dates, cultivating new friendships, or meeting new shadchanim, I really feel like AAS relationships last long-term. I also appreciate how there’s always something going on. They have something for everyone.

Devorah K.

Meet the Shadchan

350+ Shadchanim

Meet some of our 350+ shadchanim. Book a private appointment at our office to meet shadchanim. Or join one of our Meet the Shadchan events.

We don’t blame, shame, push, or probe. Enjoy some
friendly chatting with some of the most amazing shadchanim out there

Do your hishtadlus, stress-free. Yay!

“We loved the AAS shadchanim! You gave our girls the feeling that ‘I’m not alone in this’. So many girls said that these events make them feel like the whole community has their back.


Adina Krausz

Be My Guest

100+ Be My Guest Shabbos meals

Be My Guest pairs marriage-minded singles with local families for a Shabbos seuda.

Singles enjoy beautiful meals while networking with local families, meeting new friends, and sometimes finding their next date.

Harness the magic of a Shabbos meal to make more shidduchim happen.

“At first, I was hesitant to join, but Be My Guest was such a normal and ‘human’ way to meet girls. The hosts were wonderful. I walked out of each Shabbos meal with a family I’d be thrilled to join again. And the other singles were the right type — it just worked. I would definitely recommend this to my friends!”
Avi S.

Crown the Chuppah

50+ Crown the Chuppah

AAS’s tefillah card gemach for chuppahs enhances every chuppah. Call or email our office to get beautifully designed cards for your simcha. Current locations include Brooklyn, Lakewood, and Monsey.

A one-time donation of $25 helps AAS continue helping Klal Yisrael.

As your child walks down the aisle, use this special eis ratzon to its utmost. Mazel tov!

“I used the Crown the Chuppah cards because a) they’re stunning and b) I felt like AAS should be a ‘guest’ at our simcha! You held our hand through every step of the process. As our guests davened and my daughter walked around her chassan, I felt like we came full circle.”
Chavi stein

Sponsor a Single

200+ Spotlight singles

Sponsor a single for a day and take hishtadlus to a new level.

For a nominal $75 donation, our 350 AAS chat shadchanim will spend an entire day networking for your single.

Give a single the gift of undivided attention and time. This is a beautiful way to remind shadchanim about a special single in your life.

“When our shadchanim are able to dedicate time and energy for a specific individual, great things happen! We’ve had singles lined up with dates for the next three months and so, so many engagements!.”


Lisa elefant

Date-A-Base

4000+ Singles in our Date-A-Base

Get targeted suggestions from shadchanim who care through our international shidduch database.

Shrink the world with just a few clicks, allowing shadchanim to see who you are and what you’re looking for in real-time.

All profiles are private and secure, visible to AAS shadchanim only.
#singlesdignitymatters

“We want to thank your date-a-base team & Daphne Soclof from the bottom of our hearts! You were the messengers from Hashem for our shidduch. Throughout our dating journey, Mrs. Soclof was always there for us with a listening ear, advice, and support.  We recommend everyone who is dating to join it, and are SO grateful we were matched through their wonderful database! Thank you!!!”
Elana H.

Prayer Pact

10,000+ People in Prayer Pact

You daven for me and I’ll daven for youuuu…
Prayer Pact harnesses our greatest weapon: tefillah.

Whether you’re a single, a parent of a single,
or a sibling waiting for a green light, join Prayer Pact to daven for someone in a similar situation.

We can’t solve all the system’s problems,
but we can daven for each other.

“I participated in a few rounds of Prayer Pact and wanted to let you know that BH I became a kallah! I truly believe that everyone’s tefillos helped this parsha go so smoothly (so much so that I kept asking my chosson if this is real). Thank you!”

Chaya S, Kallah

Unleash the power of tefillah.

AAS Events

35+ Yearly Events

From shiurim to shadchanim, chizuk to challah bakes, we have the event YOU need.

AAS has workshops for parents, singles, and shadchanim, providing guidance, support, and inspiration.

Whether you’re looking for great speakers, networking, or supportive collaborators, AAS
events are the place to be.

“AAS events open so many doors for me. Whether it’s getting dates, cultivating new friendships, or meeting new shadchanim, I really feel like AAS relationships last long-term. I also appreciate how there’s always something going on. They have something for everyone.

Devorah K.

Speed Dating

25+ Speed Dating Events Yearly

Sick of DOAs but squirm from most speed dating events? Join our quick, productive, and enjoyable speed dating events.

At AAS, we vet our guest lists carefully to ensure each event is as on-target as possible. Our hosts keep every event appropriate and tachlis-oriented.

Less formal, more fun, still focused.

“This is why AAS speed dating works: It’ not an open BBQ mixed event. It’s like shidduch dating 25 people in 1 night. Lisa curates the crowd to be as similar as possible (age, hashkafa, etc.) and there’s always a few names you heard of or dated. It’s a great way to find names to explore further.
Yoni J.

No FOMO.

Simchas Hachaim

80+ Singles

Simchas Hachaim is AAS’s division for singles who have lost a parent.

Founded by Alain and Lea Schiff, our group of dedicated shadchanim advocate for, network for, and focus on singles who have lost a parent.

Limited slots available.

Meet the Shadchan

350+ Shadchanim

Meet some of our 350+ shadchanim. Book a private appointment at our office to meet shadchanim. Or join one of our Meet the Shadchan events.

We don’t blame, shame, push, or probe. Enjoy some
friendly chatting with some of the most amazing shadchanim out there

Do your hishtadlus, stress-free. Yay!

“We loved the AAS shadchanim! You gave our girls the feeling that ‘I’m not alone in this’. So many girls said that these events make them feel like the whole community has their back.


Adina Krausz

Fredt

50+ Fredt suggestions monthly

Friends + Redt = Fredt. Went out with someone who would be perfect for a friend, but feel awkward redting it directly?

AAS shadchanim help your ideas happen. Send in your suggestions (you can even submit anonymously).

We’ll take all the headache, you’ll get all the credit.

“I went out with this girl who I thought would be perfect for my chavrusa. I tried redting it but no one bit. When I sent in the suggestion to AAS, the shadchanim thought it was a great idea and got them to go out. Long story short, they’re engaged!”

Chaim R

Don’t fret. Just Fredt.

Coaching

100+ AAS coaching sessions

AAS offers dating coach recommendations + onsite coach available by appointment.

For many singles, a dating coach can significantly improve the dating experience and process.

Get tips, uncover patterns, and shift your mindset with a caring, talented dating coach

“I met with a dating coach through the AAS dating coach program. It was incredible! I’m a therapist and I’ve been recommending this to everyone. There’s such a need for on-point dating coaching today and it’s amazing that AAS is filling that need.”

Rena B.

Sponsor a Single

200+ Spotlight singles

Sponsor a single for a day and take hishtadlus to
a new level.

For a nominal $75 donation, our 350 AAS chat shadchanim will spend an entire day networking for your single.

Give a single the gift of undivided attention and time. This is a beautiful way to remind shadchanim about a special single in your life.

“When our shadchanim are able to dedicate time and energy for a specific individual, great things happen! We’ve had singles lined up with dates for the next three months and so, so many engagements!.”


Lisa elefant

Prayer Pact

10,000+ People in Prayer Pact

You daven for me and I’ll daven for youuuu…
Prayer Pact harnesses our greatest weapon: tefillah.

Whether you’re a single, a parent of a single,
or a sibling waiting for a green light, join Prayer Pact to daven for someone in a similar situation.

We can’t solve all the system’s problems,
but we can daven for each other.

“I participated in a few rounds of Prayer Pact and wanted to let you know that BH I became a kallah! I truly believe that everyone’s tefillos helped this parsha go so smoothly (so much so that I kept asking my chosson if this is real). Thank you!”

Chaya S, Kallah

Unleash the power of tefillah.

AAS Events

35+ Yearly Events

From shiurim to shadchanim, chizuk to challah bakes, we have the event YOU need.

AAS has workshops for parents, singles, and shadchanim, providing guidance, support, and inspiration.

Whether you’re looking for great speakers, networking, or supportive collaborators, AAS
events are the place to be.

“AAS events open so many doors for me. Whether it’s getting dates, cultivating new friendships, or meeting new shadchanim, I really feel like AAS relationships last long-term. I also appreciate how there’s always something going on. They have something for everyone.

Devorah K.

Coaching

100+ AAS coaching sessions

AAS offers dating coach recommendations + onsite coach available by appointment.

For many singles, a dating coach can significantly improve the dating experience and process.

Get tips, uncover patterns, and shift your mindset with a caring, talented dating coach

“I met with a dating coach through the AAS dating coach program. It was incredible! I’m a therapist and I’ve been recommending this to everyone. There’s such a need for on-point dating coaching today and it’s amazing that AAS is filling that need.”

Rena B.

Be My Guest

100+ Be My Guest Shabbos meals

Be My Guest pairs marriage-minded singles with local families for a Shabbos seuda.

Singles enjoy beautiful meals while networking with local families, meeting new friends, and sometimes finding their next date.

Harness the magic of a Shabbos meal to make more shidduchim happen.

“At first, I was hesitant to join, but Be My Guest was such a normal and ‘human’ way to meet girls. The hosts were wonderful. I walked out of each Shabbos meal with a family I’d be thrilled to join again. And the other singles were the right type — it just worked. I would definitely recommend this to my friends!”
Avi S

Crown the Chuppah

50+ Crown the Chuppah

AAS’s tefillah card gemach for chuppahs enhances every chuppah. Call or email our office to get beautifully designed cards for your simcha. Current locations include Brooklyn, Lakewood, and Monsey.

A one-time donation of $25 helps AAS continue helping Klal Yisrael.

As your child walks down the aisle, use this special eis ratzon to its utmost. Mazel tov!

“I used the Crown the Chuppah cards because a) they’re stunning and b) I felt like AAS should be a ‘guest’ at our simcha! You held our hand through every step of the process. As our guests davened and my daughter walked around her chassan, I felt like we came full circle.”
Chavi stein

Sponsor a Single

200+ Spotlight singles

Sponsor a single for a day and take hishtadlus to a new level.

For a nominal $75 donation, our 350 AAS chat shadchanim will spend an entire day networking for your single.

Give a single the gift of undivided attention and time. This is a beautiful way to remind shadchanim about a special single in your life.

“When our shadchanim are able to dedicate time and energy for a specific individual, great things happen! We’ve had singles lined up with dates for the next three months and so, so many engagements!.”


Lisa elefant

Date-A-Base

4000+ Singles in our Date-A-Base

Get targeted suggestions from shadchanim who care through our international shidduch database.

Shrink the world with just a few clicks, allowing shadchanim to see who you are and what you’re looking for in real-time.

All profiles are private and secure, visible to AAS shadchanim only.
#singlesdignitymatters

“We want to thank your date-a-base team & Daphne Soclof from the bottom of our hearts! You were the messengers from Hashem for our shidduch. Throughout our dating journey, Mrs. Soclof was always there for us with a listening ear, advice, and support.  We recommend everyone who is dating to join it, and are SO grateful we were matched through their wonderful database! Thank you!!!”
Elana H.

Prayer Pact

10,000+ People in Prayer Pact

You daven for me and I’ll daven for youuuu…
Prayer Pact harnesses our greatest weapon: tefillah.

Whether you’re a single, a parent of a single,
or a sibling waiting for a green light, join Prayer Pact to daven for someone in a similar situation.

We can’t solve all the system’s problems,
but we can daven for each other.

“I participated in a few rounds of Prayer Pact and wanted to let you know that BH I became a kallah! I truly believe that everyone’s tefillos helped this parsha go so smoothly (so much so that I kept asking my chosson if this is real). Thank you!”

Chaya S, Kallah

Unleash the power of tefillah.

AAS Events

35+ Yearly Events

From shiurim to shadchanim, chizuk to challah bakes, we have the event YOU need.

AAS has workshops for parents, singles, and shadchanim, providing guidance, support, and inspiration.

Whether you’re looking for great speakers, networking, or supportive collaborators, AAS
events are the place to be.

“AAS events open so many doors for me. Whether it’s getting dates, cultivating new friendships, or meeting new shadchanim, I really feel like AAS relationships last long-term. I also appreciate how there’s always something going on. They have something for everyone.

Devorah K.

Speed Dating

25+ Speed Dating Events Yearly

Sick of DOAs but squirm from most speed dating events? Join our quick, productive, and enjoyable speed dating events.

At AAS, we vet our guest lists carefully to ensure each event is as on-target as possible. Our hosts keep every event appropriate and tachlis-oriented.

Less formal, more fun, still focused.

“This is why AAS speed dating works: It’ not an open BBQ mixed event. It’s like shidduch dating 25 people in 1 night. Lisa curates the crowd to be as similar as possible (age, hashkafa, etc.) and there’s always a few names you heard of or dated. It’s a great way to find names to explore further.
Yoni J.

No FOMO.

Simchas Hachaim

80+ Singles

Simchas Hachaim is AAS’s division for singles who have lost a parent.

Founded by Alain and Lea Schiff, our group of dedicated shadchanim advocate for, network for, and focus on singles who have lost a parent.

Limited slots available.

Meet the Shadchan

350+ Shadchanim

Meet some of our 350+ shadchanim. Book a private appointment at our office to meet shadchanim. Or join one of our Meet the Shadchan events.

We don’t blame, shame, push, or probe. Enjoy some
friendly chatting with some of the most amazing shadchanim out there

Do your hishtadlus, stress-free. Yay!

“We loved the AAS shadchanim! You gave our girls the feeling that ‘I’m not alone in this’. So many girls said that these events make them feel like the whole community has their back.


Adina Krausz

Wedding Redting

75+ Wedding Redting Simchas

Who wants to get dressed up twice? (Crickets.)

With Wedding Redting, shadchanim meet singles
at simchas.

Book 1-2 shadchanim to meet the friends of your chosson and kallah in a private room in the hall. This is an easy way to help out your child’s friends

“Meeting shadchanim can be a real investment of time and energy. I love Wedding Redting because I’m already there! I do my hair and makeup once, I drive once, I dance with my friends — AND make my mother happy by doing some hishtadlus. Seriously, it’s a win-win for everyone!”
#intheparsha

Takes under 5 minutes